Going to medical school taught me a lot of worthwhile things. However, it was also a path that seemed to gradually extinguish my early entrepreneurial tendencies. As I travelled deeper down the path of specialisation into Psychiatry, I felt myself becoming more and more constricted by the rules, both spoken and unspoken and less able to take risks and create my own path. There was as sense of feeling at times trapped by some invisible prison.
Over the past few years I have been on a mission of unlearning and relearning. I have realised how absolutely fundamental it is for one's growth to be surrounded by people with similar values. I've understood that "nothing extraordinary is achieved through ordinary means" and that this means you often have to take the road less travelled, which can be downright scary.
How to live a remarkable life in a conventional world?
Although the attendees were a diverse bunch from all parts of the world, the common thread was a shared commitment to living a life anchored to adventure, freedom, community and service.
Brene Brown opened the conference speaking about the importance of allowing ourselves to connect with our own vulnerability.
A theme of the weekend was the need for courage and boldness in the world of entrepreneurialism. Daring greatly and being able to take a risk that may end in rejection, criticism or failure.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles or where the doer of deeds could have done better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood, who strives valiantly, who errs and comes up short again and again, because there is no effort without error or shortcoming...who at best, knows, in the end, the triumph of high achievement, and who, at the worst, if he fails, at least he fails while daring greatly...
~ Theodore Roosevelt.
She invited us to exercise our vulnerability muscles. This begun with a request to start singing to the person sitting next to us and ended in dancing with as much silliness as we could muster. There was an immediate relaxed, openness that permeated the room and allowed everyone to drop their guards and relate from a place of refreshing authenticity and "uncoolness".
She spoke of the importance of creativity in living a wholehearted life.
"Unused creativity is not BENIGN, it turns to grief and judgement"
The grief that comes from "unused creativity" was something I had been familiar with in past years. It took a while to see that my "I love art, but I'm not creative" story, was stifling me like a scuba diver running out of oxygen. Creativity is in fact a fundamental life force for me. In order to step into our own creativity we need to check what stories we are telling ourselves that may be damming up our natural creative resources.
My work as a holistic psychiatrist is to listen to the stories people tell themselves and support them in authoring new story lines that allow for more possibility.
The World Domination Summit was a testament to possibility.
Scott Harrison, founder of Charity Water told his story of transformation, from living the drug addicted superficial world of NYC nightclub promoting, to helping to change the lives of millions of people living in poverty, spoke of the power of possibility. As he shared stories of creating an innovative not for profit that builds wells through the developing world, tears flowed through the auditorium and resulted in many people volunteering their next birthdays to the cause. It was so inspiring to know that the mindful in may community had collectively raised nearly $30,000 to the cause.
His story supports the notion that when one's gifts are channeled in the right way, remarkable things become possible.
Although not a keynote speaker, Danielle Laporte, super successful digital entrepreneur, was a large reason I was pulled to Portland. It's always refreshing to meet someone you have been following online for a while and find that they have as much integrity and authenticity in three dimensions as they do on the screen.
Having worked in strategy at a Washington D.C think tank and then jumped ship to start her own thing, she gave succinct, practical tips on how to move from confusion to clarity with an idea.
Some gems that resonated for me included:
- There is always clarity after confusion often you just need to be patient in that "pea soup place"
- There's never a perfect time to create and launch- just do it
- Enrol into your vision by getting public about your dream (it's debatable as Derek Sivers has a different opinion)
- Choose projects that will make you money the most quickly, then work on what's going to make you the most money later
- If you're doing something you can't scale you'll end up in burnout land- make it scaleable
- Investing in market research around your product is like investing in a child by sending them to a good school
- Take softness and creativity and then get ruthless- you need timelines and deliverables to execute your ideas and projects
- If things aren't working, it's not about trying harder, it's about changing your strategy
- Your metric is your body, how do you feel?
- When you feel like you're inspired, ask why am I inspired? It will teach you a lot: use what inspires you and build on it
- SQUEEZE the life out of every project
Apart from the inspiring formal key note talks and workshops, meeting the remarkable fellow attendees made flying across the ocean completely worthwhile.
- Chantelle Baxter dedicating herself to bringing education to girls in Sierre Leone.
- Emily Cavilier of Midnight Brunch flipping brunch on it's head and bringing friends together at midnight in NYC.
- Milo McLaughlin of clear minded creative who inspires people to transition from unfulfilling day jobs to creative, passion driven jobs.
- Dave Ursillo, a man wise beyond his years who is inspiring a quiet revolution with his leadership and poetry
- Hung Pham, who realised he was counselling others in career guidance but needed to take his own advice, and so decided to become a world travelling photographer.
- Syndee Stein, a body worker and soul stirrer who artfully guides clients along new paths.
- Joshua Harbert, who grew up in Kenya the son of missionaries and now designs websites and tells stories of service around the world.
- Benny Lewis, the hilarious Irishman who travels the world and sustains himself by helping his 250,000 readers learn languages (or simply entertains them so they can't help but come back to visit).
True to its theme the conference ended with a unconventional twist. On arrival we had all received a copy of Chris Guillebeau $100 start up book. The book is a road map to reinventing the way you make a living. To bookend that, Chris announced that an anonymous donor had given $100,000 as he had been so inspired the year before. As everyone left the auditorium we were all gifted with a sealed envelope. It was a $100 bill. "There's no excuse now", Chris cheekily grinned from the stage, "I look forward to hearing what you do with this." I felt more responsibility to this $100 then any other before. As the crowd left the majestic theatre there was a buzz of ideas, collaborations, jokes and tears. What was I going to do with this unconventional gift?